
Of Adam’s first wife, Lilith, it is told
(The witch he loved before the gift of Eve,)
That, ere the snake’s, her sweet tongue could deceive,
And her enchanted hair was the first gold.
And still she sits, young while the earth is old,
And, subtly of herself contemplative,
Draws men to watch the bright web she can weave,
Till heart and body and life are in its hold.
The rose and poppy are her flower; for where
Is he not found, O Lilith, whom shed scent
And soft-shed kisses and soft sleep shall snare?
Lo! as that youth’s eyes burned at thine, so went
Thy spell through him, and left his straight neck bent
And round his heart one strangling golden hair.
The Black Moon, as Lilith is called is little used and little known in astrology, and even where she is known she is little understood. This poem by Dante Gabriel Rossetti, more famed for his collaboration with Holman-Hunt and the pre-Raphaelite movement than his poetry, but undoubtedly a true Renaissance Man, hints at Lilith’s narcotic power. Evidently, according to Rosetti, Lilith has a primal allure, an ability to mesmerise, to enthral and ultimately to enslave. There is more than a hint of self-deception in the dark wiles of Lilith, a beckoning to deluded oblivion. She appears to take away men’s mind’s, their rational, objective selves, and lead them upon a journey to self-destruction and despair. A true black sorceress then, Lilith, we infer, has echoes of narcissism and compulsion in her drowsy refrain, and she might be safely discarded as a colourful – if bewitching – footnote in the astrology, if it were not for the very frightening frequency with which Lilith is found to be significant in the configurations of murderers, psychopaths and those who commit heinous acts quite beyond the ken of humanity at large.
Take the cases of Lyle and Eric Menendez, brothers who gunned down their parents and proceeded to spend $1 million of their inheritance within weeks of the killings; both brothers, despite having very few similarities in their charts, one with Taurus and the other Virgo rising, have the Black Moon rising within 4 degrees of the Ascendant. Peter Sutcliffe, the Yorkshire Ripper who killed 13 prostitutes in the late 1970s; or Jimmy Hoffa; all had Black Moon rising conjunct the Ascendant. Mark Chapman Jones, the man who gunned down John Lennon in the autumn of 1980 also had Lilith rising.
In women’s nativities, it provokes an entirely different sense. Heidi Fleiss, the Hollywood madam, undone by sex-scandals and imprisoned has Lilith rising; as did Christine Keeler, the spy and prostitute who brought down the British government in 1963 after the “Profumo affair” was exposed. Women who switch on, or give way to the bewitching powers of Lilith are certainly playing with fire, whilst those who remain resistant to her call to deviltry are arguably less well-treated; as in the case of the tragic, short life of Jane Grey, Protestant queen of England for 9 days who was beheaded in the Tower of London as a result of political intrigue and power-mongering by those entrusted with her care. Her death, one of the most despicable and horrific acts of regicide ever to have occurred in human history, is by and large a footnote in our history books, but such is Lilith’s power, she obscures, creates confusion and tragedy and bewitches men’s minds with deluded dreams of lust and power. There is not much of good to report on poor Jane’s life, even her mother sought to “harden the child with regular beatings”. Jane said of her childhood: “For when I am in the presence of either Father or Mother, whether I speak, keep silence, sit, stand or go, eat, drink, be merry or sad, be sewing, playing, dancing, or doing anything else, I must do it as it were in such weight, measure and number, even so perfectly as God made the world; or else I am so sharply taunted, so cruelly threatened, yea presently sometimes with pinches, nips and bobs and other ways … that I think myself in hell.” At her death, aged just 16, the executioner asked her forgiveness, and she gave it.
This does not mean that Lilith cannot be profitably employed. Consider the master of horror, Vincent Price, with Lilith tightly conjunct his Sagittarius Midheaven and peregrine! Any unaspected energy point in the astrology can be given enormous power, it may run away with the whole chart under certain conditions; perhaps by transit or progression, and the conjunction for price, in an otherwise untenanted 10th, was too good an opportunity to miss. He built a formidable career playing sorcerers warlocks, murderers and monsters of various dimensions and motivations and he demonstrated perhaps the only manner in which it might be considered safe to listen to Lilith’s entreaties: for the improvement of the dramatis personæ.
June 26, 2008 at 6:04 pm
So, does this mean that because this is the day of my birth that I shall become a mass murderer of some degree?
July 4, 2008 at 1:54 pm
Wow. I’m a female with the black moon rising in Pisces. Am I right to read that resisting Lilith’s subversive urges will end badly and embracing them could be equally unfortunate?
July 4, 2008 at 2:19 pm
Good question Aello, I would say that providing you are aware of Lilith’s potential to make mischief then you should be able to use her power. Plenty do. Liz Greene for one has BML rising, as does Gene Wilder, you just need to ensure that you are not under her spell, or even that you are ‘hypnotising’ anyone else, because I believe that she does give a certain mesmeric power.
Do you have that effect on people at all?
July 24, 2008 at 11:46 am
Phew, that’s a relief (more or less). Now you mention it, sometimes I sense that certain people are somewhat… infatuated (?) with me. Just random people projecting some ideal or fantasy – a friend or two and former workmate spring to mind – but basically, giving me more credit than I deserve. Mostly I just ignore any weirdness and try to maintain the boundaries of the relationship. As an astrology student, I had suspected it was to do with my prominent Neptune, sitting as he does at the top of my chart… Now I have the influence of BML to consider as well. Timely, though, because I am excited to be attending a workshop on BML this weekend, followed by a 2-day circle in September. Seems BML is mesmerising me!
Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
July 24, 2008 at 12:19 pm
How fascinating.
Please do let me know of any insights you gain from the seminar.
July 24, 2008 at 12:23 pm
I should add that the effect of Neptune you mention would be more likely to make your relationships weird if descending (or rising I guess). I would say that Lilith is working her spell through you. That is fine of course, but it is a dangerous energy as you are probably aware, so use it mindfully right?
July 27, 2008 at 9:51 am
Today I learnt more about the Black Moon as a symbol of repressed feminine power and how it operates in a chart both positively and negatively.
In Pisces it points to the potential for disillusionment and sadness but also the pursuit of goddess-centred spirituality – both resonate with me. In the 1st, emphasised by ASC conjunction, there is a need for independence and a refusal to accept male authority. I feel I’m doing a good job of integrating the positive aspects of the Black Moon into my life/self – an awareness of her dark side helps.
April 14, 2009 at 9:03 am
Hi everyone,
I have read this poem and your threads. I found this page after googling “Pisces (which i am) and Succubus (which i believe i have encountered).
I have been searching for any sort of recognition of feasibility for the existence previous circumstances such as mine, and this poem has spoken incredibly to me, and offered incredible insight to my findings.
I am a 22 year old male. High aspirations, and a typical healthy good looking guy. As of a year ago, I have been gaining (at first) the interest of several women who should have no reason to be interested in me. One of them being an executive class diplomat in her 50’s, a pediatrician in her 40’s, and the girl whom I’ve fallen in love with, a sculptor who is my age.
The coincidental differences between the women as they pertain to my life and personality are astounding, especially because I met them all in the same month, March of 2008, i had just turned 21.
In Rossetti’s poem, he writes:
“Draws men to watch the bright web she can weave,
Till heart and body and life are in its hold.”
I believe the succubus looming over me has come in the form of Lilith, riding the Black Moon into my life. She is drawing me into a web of deceit that is extremely hypnotizing.
Here’s why:
The eldest of the women I (as despicable as it may be) soon realized to be a very good aid to my career and life goals.
A benefactor, patroness, etc. My relations with her have stroked my ego, and tended brilliantly to my needs to always feel the constant advancement of my career and life goals. Being an executive diplomat, I am sure you can understand what kind of advantages come with a relationship with her.
She is Lilith coming to snare my “life”.
The Pediatrician is another story. I could best describe her now almost as drawn up by my sexual imagination. She pushes me to strange, and taboo debaucheries that thrill me like no drugs ever could. She is Lilith coming to snare my “body”.
Now, the sculptor who is half the age of the other two women is truly the only person i could ever consider explaining what is going on right now (and the things that I am writing), and have faith in her love for me that she would try with all of her heart to understand and to help me. I love her like I love my dreams and family. She is the nurturing light that I need to guide my poor Black Moon stricken soul.
It even hurts to write of my painful suspicion that she is Lilith, coming to snare my heart.
It is all so blinding and confusing. I’ve tried since the beginning of Spring to make sense of what happened to me last year, and I can’t explain it, because I am still caught in this web. I can’t break free, but I feel as though I may be able to find an answer.
Can anybody help me?
April 17, 2009 at 7:35 am
Like with all Black Moon Lilith experiences John, to a certain extent we must allow our own descent into the “abyss” otherwise we will not be able to piece unconscious parts of ourseves together as one.
I have known of some people descending into Lilith’s relational experiences several times over John. In each case, the same relationship outcomes have occurred. Some may call this learning the same “mistake” over and over however perhaps its a journey to know the unknowable intimacies of self.
Sometimes there is no other way John.
kingsley
April 28, 2009 at 12:03 am
Any thoughts on Black Moon Lilith in synastry? I’ve just realised that a man I’ve been fixated on for a while now has Lilith exactly conjunct my Moon.
May 29, 2009 at 9:47 pm
One has to feel sorry for Lilith to be honest. Here she is the first wife of Adam who refuses to be put “under him” considering herself an equal, and for that she is chastsized. Like the old theory that a man can be as sexually active as he chooses with no consequence, but if a woman was to do it, she’s a slut (for lack of a better word). Let us not forget that Lilith was an angel first who stuck up for herself. Her powers to strengthen women are only now becoming realizations. I’m proud to BML, why wouldn’t I be?